In today's world, there's an undeniable attack on women's roles and femininity. Many believe that men are the enemy, that women must compete with each other, or that they need to prove themselves equal to men. However, these beliefs couldn't be further from the truth.
In Genesis, we see God's original design for both men and women. The word used to describe woman as a "helper suitable" (ezer kinedo in Hebrew) carries significant meaning. Rather than implying subservience, this term represents strength and completion - the same word God uses to describe Himself in relation to Israel.
Interestingly, Satan didn't appear in the garden until after woman was created. This timing wasn't coincidental. When both man and woman were present, they represented a complete image of God. This made them a formidable threat to the enemy's plans.
God never intended for there to be division between men and women. Instead, He designed them to work in partnership, each bringing unique strengths and abilities to complement the other.
Eve wasn't named until after the fall, when Adam called her "life-giver." This naming wasn't just about biological motherhood - it represented a broader calling for all women to bring life through:
Speaking truth
Offering hope
Providing support
Bringing healing
Sharing wisdom
Many women carry names given to them by past experiences, failures, or generational curses. However, God offers new names and identities based on His truth rather than our past mistakes.
Men play a crucial role in recognizing and supporting women's God-given purposes. This isn't about diminishing male leadership but about partnering together as God intended.
Consider these challenging questions:
What legacy are you creating?
How are you using the life God has given you?
Who are you competing with, and why?
Are you actively giving life to others?
Take action this week by:
Speaking life-giving words to others
Celebrating others' successes instead of competing
Embracing your unique role and calling
Breaking free from comparison
Finding ways to partner with others rather than compete
Remember: You are fearfully and wonderfully made, with a specific purpose that only you can fulfill. Stop competing and start completing God's design for your life.